June 06, 2019

Why You Should Fall In Love With Your Best Friend


























I've never told the story of how me and my boyfriend Craig came to be. And I won't be telling that story today. We'll save that for another day. What I will tell you is that we started off as very good friends.
If anyone even uttered the words "You should go out with Craig!" my response was usually something like "What!!? No way! He's like my best friend!"
This is the usual response from anyone who hears that about their close friend.
Well today, I'm going to tell you why you should push that automatic response to the side and maybe give your best friend a shot.

1. They're your best friend for a reason: Right off the bat there was something you had in common with this person that attracted you to them. Maybe you liked the same music, the same food or you have the same weird sense of humor. Whatever it is, it works.

2. You already feel comfortable talking to them: Listen, if you've already told your guy best friend extremely personal stuff and he hasn't made a run for it yet, you can bet he's a keeper.

3. You know each other: You know what makes the other person happy or angry. They already know how to make you smile when you're having a bad day and you've probably already told them all of your embarrassing old stories.

4. He's probably already seen you in true form: No makeup, hair a mess, old sweat pants. You wont have to dread that point in the relationship.

5. He could end up being the greatest love of your life: So many people use the same excuse; I don't want to ruin my friendship with them. Trust me, this thought ran through my mind so many times. And honestly, I can't promise you that telling your friend you like them won't ruin your friendship. Because it very well could. But you'll never know unless you take a chance. They could have been waiting forever to hear you say that.

So I say go for it! And if they tell you they don't feel the same way and stop hanging out with you, well, maybe it wasn't such a great friendship after all.

4 comments:

  1. I both absolutely adore this post and hate it because I'm currently mega single and mega lonely. I think that falling in love with your best friend is one of the best things you can do - you already know and trust them completely.

    Love the post, and hope you have a great weekend :)
    Amy x Wandering Everywhere

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    1. Aww I'm sure a truly, great love will find its way to you soon :) <3

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  2. This is such a beautiful post! I have known a lot of people who've held off on dating a friend because they were afraid to ruin that friendship. But the friends I know that did give it a try have wound up getting married! You're right...there's a reason that friendship exists. So you just never know what could happen romantically.
    the-creationofbeauty.blogspot.com

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    1. Exactly! You're drawn to that person for a reason imo! Sometimes it is a case of "just friends" but I think if more people gave it a chance they'd see there just might be something more there!

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